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I've been thinking for a while and have just been wondering to myself, am I really a bad person? I go and say some stuff, then I argue my point back to myself. I don't want to be a bad guy but I say shit I don't mean to myself and peers. I have no idea who I am or what I am, but I've been stressed all morning about this and need opinions.

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I don't feel too welcome on here anymore. I'm not leaving, but I didn't do anything and people are yelling at me for defending my point. What happened?

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I don't feel too welcome on here anymore. I'm not leaving, but I didn't do anything and people are yelling at me for defending my point. What happened?

You took a step into the online world, aka the Internet.

 

Not to sound rude as that is not my intention, but when you're surfing the web or posting your opinion, thoughts, or what-have-you online, you're opening the door to random people around the world and you need to prepare yourself. People won't always agree, people won't always react with good intentions, and people will purposely respond in a way just to get a rise out of you. Long story short, the Internet isn't a very friendly place. The best way to cope with it is to accept that fact and to not let anyone get under your skin. The thing with being online is that it's nearly impossible to tell when someone is being genuine, sincere, sarcastic, etc; so take everything with a grain of salt and especially don't take anything personally. The worst thing you can do is accept what other people say as fact when it is merely their opinion.

 

If you feel that you're being harassed or are otherwise uncomfortable on the forums (or even in Servers), I implore you to seek the aid of a CM or CL to talk about it. Our CMs/CLs are very receptive and can help in any way that they can. But do keep in mind that more often than not, this is just something you need to learn from first-hand experience. Don't let people get to you, and don't let what people say or do define who you are as a person :coffee:

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You're not a bad person. Just because you got -1'd doesn't mean that we don't like you, or that you're supposed to feel unwelcome in the community. Same goes with the little argument that happened on Trade Gaming last night. It's just sorta how xG is really, I can't say much else than that. It's common, people yell at eachother all the time for having a different opinion or a certain point of view. I mean shit, how many times hasn't that happened to me because I really don't like anything about pyro. I've become a meme on the server for saying "Everything about pyro is either op or broken." So please don't take it that harsh.

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I think you're alright. I will change my vouch to a +1 if we meet again and you can be mature and friendly on the server the entire time because I know you don't have bad intentions.

As @Forest said, it's stepping into the internet. Trust me, I know too well

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:llama: Gonna get real here for a minute.... :llama:

 

The world is a very dark place, off the web and on the web. People don’t care about others feelings and they try to do what they want to piss someone off. This world is sick; and people will try to get you down... But you can’t take everything someone says personally. They have not met you, they don’t know you... thusly their words are null in meaning. I have many people that call me a bunch of crap. it irritates me yes... But I don’t let it get to me; they don’t know me so they have no ability to label me as something.

 

 

 

 

-1’s on your app show that you have some things that need to be worked on; and you can use that to work your way up to becoming a member.

 

 

You are a fine in my opinion; everyone makes mistakes, thats what humans do...all you got to do is try to fix them and avoid making the same mistakes again.

 

 

If you decide to make another membership application in a month; and I hope you do, Best of luck to you!

Edited by TheSupremePatriot (see edit history)

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you seemed like an alright person when i met you on a server (i think it was tgh)

so don't take anything too hard that is thrown your way, act like you ignore it and try to think of any bad comment that comes your way as an opportunity to improve yourself

Edited by Guest (see edit history)

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