There's been large amount of immaturity from both sides of this. I will not make a final statement on this until Kitty herself responds. But, one thing, stop the Tf2 bashing. If you no longer enjoy the game, feel free to stop playing on our servers. You're welcome in our community to do whatever you wish. You may joke around, have fun, and keep-in-touch via forums. Keep your feud private or cease communication.
On the issue of bans, they need to be distributed evenly and fairly because I view both of them who have been disrespectful. (However to different extents). I will post my full opinion upon further information and post wrestling this evening.