Im a little late to the answer, but as someone who has been here since the beginning of xG and discovering what furries were because of xG myself back when I was 13(I turn 21 tomorrow)there will always be issues within the community on this stuff, there really isnt a correct answer either, other than just be yourself.
Dont be afraid to reach out to others about how you feel though, if of course this isn't a troll post.